At what point do you choose to let something go? Something you’ve been holding on to for so long that it feels like it’s a part of you versus just an experience you had. Logically, I know holding things in isn’t healthy. Logically, I also know that being willing to forgive is the first step in being able to. I’ll be honest with you, I didn’t want to let it go. I didn’t want to forgive myself. I didn’t even want to be willing to. Through my tears, I really, really, really wanted to stay angry at myself over this.